After much testing, over several weeks, the ‘get_user_pages‘ solution for Kernels 6.5 and later is now in the default patchset, at:
https://github.com/mkubecek/vmware-host-modules/tree/workstation-17.0.2 .

For more details, see the comments at the start of the patch code for the vmmon changes..  vmmon: use get_user_pages to get page PFN

Robert Gadsdon.   September 30th 2023.